Help me improve my sexual life!

rojer_dick · Curious cat Joined: 31 Mar 2008 Posts: 1

I am in love with a girl & she loves me too but it's been 1 year of relationship that we haven't had real sex. She just fore played with me & used to stop there. I think she was scared of having sex. I had tried several times to ask her as to why she doesn't do it but she was unable to give a concrete answer. But to my luck stars she did have sex with me and there was a problem of premature ejaculation. I have had sex earlier a few times but this sort of problem never aroused …….I think this was the first time with her...so!!!..Please let me know any good ways or material which can make me more known to having good sex and being comfortable with it.

feliciafan89 · Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 3:20 pm Post subject:

I've never done it before, but from what I know, you need to make it comfortable for the girl, too. If things get too heated up, you'll orgasm too early, and it's all over. Women aren't like that. They need more time and pleasure to have an orgasm. Hope that helps.
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Sariss · Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 4:12 pm Post subject:

Can I ask how old you both are?
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feliciafan89 · Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 6:22 pm Post subject:

If you must know, I'm 19, Sariss. Yes. I'm 19 and STILL a virgin. Don't ask.
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agentjr · Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 11:39 pm Post subject:

feliciafan89 · Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 7:22 pm Post subject:

Even though one's maximum "performance" gradually decreases with age. That's part of what worries me.

The other part, I hate waiting. Laughing out loud

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Sariss · Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 10:53 pm Post subject:

feliciafan89 · Posted: Mon Apr 07, 2008 4:11 pm Post subject:

Oh... sorry. Should've realized that! Laughing out loud

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Damain · Cat fancy Joined: 15 Sep 2009 Posts: 13

Well, I'd say sexual performance peaks for a man around early 20s cause I never really needed sex until the last couple of years. my sexuality at 19 was only about half of what it is at 23, and I didn't lose my virginity until I was 20. So yeah, you have lots of time to begin you're journey down that road.

Anyway, as for pre-ejaculation, that's a tough one cause I have the opposite problem. But if I had that problem I'd probably get the girl off first since you're already at that point, then she when she's had hers, you can get yours in an easily.

Simpson · Curious cat Joined: 07 Nov 2009 Posts: 1

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